B'nai
Mitzvah Study
THE RIGHT OF PASSAGE
The literal meaning of Bar or Bat Mitzvah is Son or
Daughter of the Commandment. Though this term is often used to refer to the
ceremony itself, the term technically applies to the young person coming of
age. According to Jewish tradition, a child attains the status of majority,
or adult status, at the age of 13 years + 1 day for a boy, and 12 years + 1
day for a girl. Thereafter, a Jew is held personally accountable for
religious observance.
PREPARING FOR THIS SPECIAL DAY
Young adults at TBS begin their formal preparation one year
ahead of time. They begin with group study with Rabbi James, which includes
participating and assisting in weekly Erev Shabbat and Shabbat Torah services.
The B'nai Mitzvah class meets once a week as a group.
One on one study with the Rabbi starts about 6 months prior
to being called to the Torah. These meetings focus on more in-depth study of the
Bar or Bat Mitzvah's individual Torah portion as well as discussion and
exploration of Judaism itself.
BEING CALLED TO THE TORAH
At TBS, our Bar and Bat Mitzvah's are not only called to read
from the Torah for the first time, they are also called upon to lead the
congregation in both the Erev Shabbat and complete Shabbat Torah service. The
skills and life lessons learned from this undertaking are deeply embedded in our
young adults, and are ones that will be a part of who they are for the rest of
their lives.
Being called to the Torah as a Bar or Bat Mitzvah is not only
an important life experience for the Bar or Bat Mitzvah, but is truly an event
that is revered and honored by our entire TBS community.